The Ultimate Guide to Hosting Thanksgiving
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Find everything you need to host Thanksgiving like a pro. Get the scoop on planning your traditional Thanksgiving menu, decorating your Thanksgiving table, printable Thanksgiving activities and even a Thanksgiving playlist!
Give your guests the ultimate Thanksgiving to remember.
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What Day is Thanksgiving this Year?
This year, Thanksgiving falls on November 24th, 2022. This holiday always falls on the fourth Thursday of November – so if you’re thinking it feels late in the month this year, you’re not wrong!
Regardless of the date, the Thanksgiving countdown is on and I’m here to help! I’m covering everything you need to entertain like a true pro. You’ll find the best laid plans for shopping, meal planning, decorating, Thanksgiving activities and so much more!
Are you ready? Let’s make like Joey from Friends and find our maternity pants to make sure we have room for all this partying!
I’ve been feeling so thankful that you share the same passions and enjoy celebrating everyday life in many of the same ways. Start with this round-up of the best fall cookies to make sure your celebrations are off to a good start- and don’t forget 30 Thanksgiving appetizers when you start planning your menu.
Thanksgiving History
In 1863, Abraham Lincoln proclaimed that November 26 was a day to bless the family members of those who were lost in the Civil War. It was also a day that was meant to give thanks for the Gettysburg win. Lincoln declared that a national day of thanks-giving would happen in November, every year thereafter.
In modern terms, our current version of Thanksgiving is shaped after the harvest feast held by the Pilgrims in 1621. The Wampanoag tribe brought an amazing display of food to that year’s feast, because harvest celebrations were one of their own traditions. This was where the traditional Thanksgiving menu truly began!
President Roosevelt moved the celebration to our current placement on the calendar with the hopes that it would allow more time for a retail boost between Thanksgiving and Christmas.
Thanksgiving Worksheets You Can’t Live Without
Hosting Thanksgiving doesn’t need to be stressful or complicated! Because I love to be organized when I entertain, I have had so much fun creating beautiful Thanksgiving printables (all free to you!) to help you create the Thanksgiving table of your dreams.
These worksheets are a great solution to your organization, Thanksgiving activities, and planning needs. Yes, you’ll want to start your work ahead of time. Think of it as a marathon, not a sprint…and that way you can enjoy all the prep work and the event stress free!
You can get your free printable Thanksgiving Planner, Shopping List, Menu Planner, Cooking Schedule, and Weekly Schedule here!
- First, you’ll want to begin by considering the obvious. Date, time, guest list, etc. When you’re working ahead, you’ll also want to pull your linens, china, candles, and all the good stuff to make sure you’ve got the proper amounts of what you’ll need.
- Next, begin to plan your menu! You can also label your serving pieces so you know what will go in each piece. This worksheet will also walk you through the ins and outs of which dishes to make ahead, cooking methods, bake times, etc for a traditional Thanksgiving menu that is truly unforgettable.
- The next worksheet is your timeline! This one will guide you through a Sunday to Thursday schedule that can help you keep track of what to do and when. There’s plenty of space for notes on the side, too, because we all know there’s a lot to keep track of when planning!
- Decor Guidelines– My favorite printable worksheet in this set is your inspiration for decor. I’ve created notes that can guide you through mood, color palette, linens, candles, china and serving pieces, place cards and more.
- I’ve also got a shopping list organizer worksheet, which I explain more below.
QUICK PRO TIP: Be sure to ask guests about dietary restrictions and allergies. It’s probably fine if they can’t eat every dish you make, but you’ll want to make sure there are plenty of options for everyone!
Thanksgiving Shopping List
Once you’ve planned your menu, the shopping should be the easiest part, right? Well, not always. If you’re anything like me, you’ll forget items, run from one store to the next, and just generally create more work for yourself.
Thankfully, I have online ordering options for grocery shopping now, where it’s easier to check things off my list one by one. However, I still need that list and it needs to be organized! This printable Thanksgiving shopping list is the perfect solution to getting all your needs in one place.
Spending less time shopping and more time on FUN Thanksgiving activities! You’ll be able to reference your traditional Thanksgiving menu as you shop, which is so helpful.
Thanksgiving Menu Planner
In this free printable menu planner, you can organize your thoughts and entertaining timeline as the big day approaches. I promise – hosting Thanksgiving isn’t intimidating if you’re organized!
Timing is so important when it comes to creating a meal as large as this one. I can’t stress this enough – planning ahead will save your sanity on this day! You’ll want to consider all the details about things that can be made ahead – including appetizers, side dishes and desserts.
Another important item to consider is oven time. Many of our homes don’t have double ovens, thus making that warming space a hot commodity on Thanksgiving day. Here’s a few of my favorite Thanksgiving recipes that can be made ahead.
- Sweet Potato Casserole (A Ruth’s Chris copycat recipe!)
- Cheesy Corn is perfect to make ahead!
- Dinner Rolls
- Cranberry Sauce
- Apple Salad – slice, dice and prepare ahead of time and simply add sliced apples and dressing at serving time.
- Cranberry Spinach Salad is so beautiful to serve for Christmas or Thanksgiving and can also be made ahead!
QUICK PRO TIP: Carefully consider which dishes can be made ahead of time! You’ll want to avoid standing over the stove so that you can allow plenty of time to chat with guests. Quality family time is precious indeed!
Traditional Thanksgiving Menu
Everyone knows that the turkey is supposed to be the star of the show on this holiday. However, I beg to differ. If a person could make a meal out of side dishes and desserts alone, that’s what I would prefer! (And sometimes that’s exactly what I choose to do!)
If you’re hosting Thanksgiving, you’ve got to try these tried and true reader favorites that to truly make the side dishes, appetizers, and desserts the star of the show.
Thanksgiving Side Dishes
A few of my faves for a traditional Thanksgiving menu? Your turkey will be intimidated by all this greatness…
- Firehouse Green Beans with Bacon (most popular!)
- Smashed Sweet Potatoes
- Corn Casserole (that doubles as a dip)
- Caramelized Shallot Mashed Potatoes
- Sweet and Savory Corn Bread
- Roasted Sweet Potatoes
- Crispy Brussels Sprouts
- Italian Vegetables
- Candied Carrots
- Easy 30 Minute Dinner Rolls
- Cranberry Sauce with Port
- Roasted Artichokes
Thanksgiving Appetizers
If you are hosting overnight guests or even just family and friends from nearby, it can be helpful to provide a variety of appetizers as well as the main courses. This helps keep hungry kids (and adults) at bay while you finish up any remaining work in the kitchen!
I have appetizer and dip recipes for every occasion, but here’s a few favorites for a traditional Thanksgiving menu.
- Crescent Roll Appetizers with Pear and Cheese
- Pear Appetizer with Blue Cheese and Walnuts (gluten free!)
- Spinach Dip with Cream Cheese
- Irresistible Veggie Dip
- Onion Tart
- Roasted Mushrooms
- Whipped Goat Cheese Spread
- Easy Baked Goat Cheese and Honey Appetizer
- Goat Cheese Crostini with Fig Appetizer
- Easy Sour Cream Dip
- Caramelized Shallot Dip
- Bacon Cheese Dip
- Amazing Corn Dip
- 3 Ingredient Santa Fe Cheese Ball
- Incredible Artichoke Dip
- The Best Beer Bread
Thanksgiving Desserts
Traditionally, apple and pumpkin desserts create the ultimate fall treats. Any of these no-fail recipes are going to blow your guests away!
Start here, with my Ultimate Apple Guide and Best Pumpkin Desserts, where you’ll learn everything you ever wanted to know about baking with these goodies! Hosting Thanksgiving is easier than ever.
Looking for a few specific ideas? Here are a few of the most popular fall dessert recipes that are a surefire success!
- Crazy Good Pumpkin Cake with Cream Cheese Frosting
- Pumpkin Bars
- Easy No Bake Pumpkin Cheesecake
- Apple Cinnamon Bread Recipe
- Apple Pound Cake
- Pumpkin Sugar Cookies
- Baked Apple Slices
- Apple Spice Cookies
- Salted Caramel Sugar Cookies
- Old-fashioned Butterscotch Sheet Cake
- Pumpkin Pound Cake
- Carmelita Cookies
- Cinnamon Sugar Cookies
Thanksgiving Cocktails
Finish off your holiday with a cocktail or non-alcoholic beverage to warm your hearts!
- Mulled Wine
- Apple Cider Bourbon Slush
- Apple Butter Old-Fashioned
- Spiked Apple Cider with Bourbon
- Non-alcoholic Mulled Wine
and soooo many more! You can find the complete Thanksgiving cocktail guide here.
Thanksgiving Activities
While the food served for this holiday is obviously the main event, often friends and family can hang out and visit for hours (or even days) when you’re entertaining. It’s always a great idea to have fun Thanksgiving activities planned that will fill in gaps in conversation and create time for you to finish the meal!
Thanksgiving activities don’t need to be complicated – they just need to be fun. This gives guests something to do during conversation lulls, and can also serve as icebreakers when folks may not be well acquainted.
These are not just about Thanksgiving for kids – anyone will love these ideas!
Thanksgiving Activities
Entertain your guests with these easy ideas- FREE printables that anyone can download and make.
Thanksgiving For Kids
Thanksgiving is the perfect opportunity to teach our children to be thankful. They can discuss the things they are grateful for just like we can! Setting them up with their own table shouldn’t be intimidating – in fact, it’s lots of fun for the kids and adults too.
As you can see, in Thanksgivings past I have set the girls up with their own special little space for the holiday – the easiest kids Thanksgiving. Providing them with word searches, thank-you cards to write, and even books about Thanksgiving can be such an easy way to entertain the little ones.
Thanksgiving for kids can be so much fun, and such a special time to learn and spend time with family! A few of our favorite Thanksgiving books for a variety of ages:
Thanksgiving Decorations
Oh you know this is one of my favorite parts of hosting this holiday! I love the tradition of setting a beautiful table for loved ones- it truly makes an event so much more special.
Again, it doesn’t have to be complicated! Simple is my middle name! Keep in mind that I have so many tutorials to walk you through floral arrangements, centerpieces and even place settings.
QUICK PRO TIP: You can make your centerpieces ahead of time just like the food! I like to buy my flowers two days ahead of an even to make sure they are open, lush and beautiful!
Thanksgiving Flowers
Yes, you can create floral arrangements that will bring your home to life! No need for elaborate fall decor, just add a few fresh floral touches to change the entire feel of your home. Learn all the best florist secrets here- including where to buy, what blooms to use, etc.
Thanksgiving Table Settings
One of the easiest and least expensive ways to dress your Thanksgiving table up for guests is to use my printable place cards. Over the years, I have created countless table settings to inspire your tables – get some of my best tips right here.
- Thanksgiving Entertaining Tips
- How to Set a Thanksgiving Table
- Elegant Dining Table for Thanksgiving
- Thanksgiving Dinner Table Decoration Ideas
PRO TIP: This is another fun thing for the kids to help with! Allow children to help with setting the table and decorating. Thanksgiving for kids should be fun but also an opportunity to teach traditions and history!
My favorite table settings always begin with classic glassware, plates and flatware. My philosophy is that choosing classic, timeless pieces will serve you year round – this thought process hasn’t failed me yet.
Especially when it comes to hosting Thanksgiving and other holidays, I always revert to the classics. You can find my favorite pieces for entertaining below!
Thanksgiving Centerpieces
Thanksgiving Centerpieces
Every style of Thanksgiving centerpiece you could ever need - with simple tutorials to accomplish each one.
Thanksgiving Prayer
On this holiday where everyone can find something to be thankful for, it is lovely to include a Thanksgiving prayer regardless of the denomination of your guests.
This Thanksgiving blessing from Ralph Waldo Emerson is a perfect choice because you can recite it just as it is, or add “Our Father in Heaven, We Thank Thee” after each line. It reads like a poem and is beautiful spoken or written.
For flowers that bloom about our feet,
For tender grass so fresh, so sweet,
For the song of bird and hum of bee,
For all things fair we hear or see,
For blue of stream and blue of sky,
For pleasant shade of branches high,
For fragrant air and cooling breeze,
For beauty of the blooming trees,
For this new morning with its light,
For rest and shelter of the night,
For health and food, for love and friends,
For everything Thy goodness sends,
Father in heaven, we thank Thee.
Thanksgiving Poems
There are so many sweet and humorous Thanksgiving poems that you can use as a printable piece of art in your home, or add to your tables somehow. It’s also so cute to have the kids at your gathering read a piece of Thanksgiving poetry for a charming little bit of entertainment for the adults!
Here’s a favorite, perfect for Thanksgiving for kids. Do you have any other suggestions? I’d love to hear! We love funny poems in our home.
TURKEY TURKEY
Turkey, Turkey, look at you,
Please be careful what you do.
Thanksgiving Day is almost here,
We eat turkey every year.
Go, hide out in the woods,
We’ll eat pizza, as we should!
Thanksgiving Songs
Music is an important part of any celebration, and I think having a warm, comforting playlist in the background is perfect for Thanksgiving. I have a Thanksgiving playlist available for inspiration that I bet you’ll love!
A few classic Thanksgiving favorites that celebrate love, friendship and family:
- Home – Tim McGraw
- You Are The Best Thing – Ray LaMontagne
- The Best Is Yet To Come – Stacey Kent
- You Got A Friend In Me – Randy Newman
I love sharing my favorite fall and Halloween decorating ideas with you! Don’t skip Fall Living Room Decor inspiration for a few more of my favorite autumn ideas.
Things to Do Thanksgiving Weekend
Far beyond a traditional Thanksgiving menu and meal, it’s time to gather with your family for fun outings and activities. Make new traditions if you don’t have any or work on some Thanksgiving Activities as a family!
It’s the holiday of togetherness, but also an opportunity to decompress. It’s the perfect time to:
- Do a fun run
- Go on a hike
- Take a bike ride
- Watch a football game with family and friends
- Go to the movies
- Watch a holiday lighting ceremony
Well, what do you think? Have I covered everything you’ll want to know to host Thanksgiving? I’d love to hear from you – please don’t hesitate to reach out with questions or comments.
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Noeme says
Thank you so much for the amazing tips from decorating to cooking. I will be hosting my first Thanksgiving with my newly born first grandson. Hoping for a successful celebration.
Julie Blanner says
I hope it is a special occasion! Such sweet memories in the making. Enjoy!
Makenna @MoreThanRavens says
This is really comprehensive! I like the cooking schedule sheet in particular. I’m hosting Thanksgiving for the first time this year so am definitely thinking about how I need to space out the cooking… So far I have planned to make pie dough ahead of time and bake the day before and do everything else day of. I also like your centerpieces. May have to do that mini pumpkin one! I love baby’s breath so maybe I’ll throw some of that in somewhere too.
Julie Blanner says
Hi Makenna!
I love the idea of the baby’s breath with the mini pumpkins. Good luck with hosting your first Thanksgiving, so exciting!
Cheers!
Julie
Martina says
You thought of everything Julie! This is such an amazing resource, thanks for sharing!
Julie Blanner says
Thank you, Martina! So glad you found it helpful!
Jennie says
Honestly! This is the best guide to Thanksgiving ideas I have ever seen! I will definitely be using some of them this year. Thank you, thank you!!
Julie Blanner says
Thank you, Jennie! So glad you enjoyed it and appreciate you taking the time to comment! It made my day!
Theresa Guetlich says
This is a great comprehensive guide to Thanksgiving. I also keep list and notes but will use your printables just to make the occasion even more festive! Thank you!
Julie Blanner says
Thank you, Theresa! Glad you enjoyed it!